Syasya's Birth Story

Emm, at last I'm now a mother...now let me tell me about Syasya's birth story.....was excited to see our little princess and at the same time scared..maklumlah... first experience...don't know what to expect...

Alhamdulillah during my pregnancy I dont face much problem, can still go to class and drive to class as usual... selera makan pun okey, mcm2 yg diidamkan akan dicarik bersama hubby...masa nak besalin tu rajin minum air kelapa muda n air soya....waktu malam2 pun selalu tido sorang2 sbb hubby keje malam... nasib telepas dugaan2 tu n tak rasa nak bersalin waktu malam...sempat pi secretaries week, belakon n etc...my baby ni dengar kata sbb kami suh dia tunggu dulu...mama sempat amik satu paper on 21st April...tapi pastu masih tak rasa sakit lagik...kami pun pi la hosp n seek for Dr's advise, dia kata I should go to the hosp to be admitted on my the 9th day iaitu ari sabtu...ari ke 10 akan di induce...my parents ari Jumaat mlm dah sampai...on saturday tu mkn kenyang2 then pas zuhur saya pun pi menyerah diri di Hospital Putrajaya...amik bilik sorang sbb Hasnol kata kalo bilik sorang hubby ley teman waktu mlm...mmg pun Hasnol dpt tmn Anne aritu...tapi malangnyer pas dah masuk tanya kat nurse yg betugas dia kata x bley plak...dulu Anne kat Wad2A n me Wad 2B...la beza wing jek tapi lain plak dianyer syarat...strict plak nurse yg on duty aritu...huwaaaaaa tido sorang la mlm tu...tapi siap bwk buku2 utk exam ari rabu n jumaat aritu, kononnya study la...ari sabtu rilek jek...ahad tu kena induce 2x...then tunggu la contraction, sakit sgt biler rasa contraction tu...kalo baby kuar on 23 ahad tu dah sama ngan Auntie Mimie...asyik tepon hubby n mak jek, tp nurse kata biasa la tu, blom lagik..isnin pagi Dr. check dah dilated 4cm, Dr pecahkan waterbag n boley diantar ke labor room...call hubby to get ready...dlm kol 10am masuk la labor room, hubby ada paper utk exam kol 2pm so we hope that our baby kuar dlm kol 12pm camtu la...

Dlm labor room ada nurse yg standby...kalo dah buka 9/10cm baru Dr. dtg...nurse tu baik sgt, she gave a lot of support and encouragement...hubby dok pegang tgn...tiap kali contraction siap tarik2 baju dia lagik...he was so patient and supportive...around 12.30pm camtu dah buka dlm 8cm...but I have a major problem...I don't know how to push...ingat lgk poek n ila ckp tarik nafas dlm2, tekan dagu ke dlm, push kuat2 jgn kuar suara...tapi I really can't push....nafas tak terus ke perut, cuma kuar kot mulut jek....the nurse ask my hubby to look and see nampak dah rambut baby, tunggu mama push jek, hubby tgk n terus ckp "Yang boley buatnyer, dah nampak dah rambut syasya....", cuba push lagik tapi tak berjaya....the nurses, Dr. and hubby ajar pun tak gheti2 gak...bygkan awak kena sembelit...push n make sure nafas tu menolak perut.."dlm hati....tapi saya tak selalu kena sembelit, kalo kena pun sure beli pisang n betik, tak kuasa la nak teran2 ni..." if I know how to push sure around 1pm dah besalin...hubby dah getting worried, camne nak pi exam ni....? then he decided not to go, tak sampai atie tgk wife tgh sakit2 camtu, the nurse told zaimi to call his lecturer n inform of his condition, pi la hubby masuk toilet dlm labor room tu curik2 n inform lecturer dia....akhirnya ramai la nurses n akhirnya ada 2 doctor who helped me to deliver our baby...pas the 2nd Dr. dtg baru la Syasya nak kuar...at that point of time dah rasa tak terdaya sgt...dah lembik dah...tak sangka akhirnya ley gak push with the help of the vacum..tepat kol 2.39pm, bayi yg comel tu pun kuar berat 3.1kg, length 50cm...panjang gak tu...besar gak Syasya patutla susah Mama nak push...pas Syasya kuar Mama dah penat giler...ingatkan dah settle la...dorang cuba kuarkan uri but unfortunately ada cebisan placenta tu telekat n tak bole kuar, lama la gak dorang korek2, masa tu dah tak rasa sakit, asyik isap gas dan naik laloq dah....tak lama pastu the Dr. ask me n hubby to stay calm n they need to discuss sth with us, suspence giler masa tu, ingatkan anything wrong with our baby, ghupe2 pasal uri tu they have to do placenta removal cam d&c nye process...kena cucuk bhgn spinal utk bius separuh bdn, kalo tak kuarkan cebisan uri tu ley tumpah darah n merbahaya, so me n hubby setuju, i hv to sign a document...dah tak kesah dah masa tu asalkan our baby ok, nak buat apa buatla...hikmahnya sakit jahit pas besalin tu tak la mai rasa sbb dah bius...lama gak la proses tu sbb dlm kol 6pm baru kuar dr bilik bedah...Dr. tu baik sgt n explain the process n bgtau la pasal proses tu...hubby kat luar dah risau giler...sms dah belambak2 tanya my condition, tapi disebabkan penat n was asked to bedrest for 6hours tak jadik nak inform kwn2 my condition...mlm tu my mom temankan tido kat hospital sbb nurse yg smlm tu xde...dia buat bodo jek n tido gak kat bilik tu, rasa lega sgt my mom dpt temankan, dah la kena baring jek, camne nak jaga baby... my mom angkat baby n aritu gak breastfeed syasya sambil baring...masa tu bius masih ada n sakit tak terasa sgt...thanks to my beloved mom sbb byk berkorban...betul ckp Anne, rasa insaf bila dah jadik ibu n rasa apa yg mak2 kita rasaa....to both Mak n Mak Mentua, tq so much...

Bsknya baru la inform kwn2, ramai kwn2 ofis yg dtg....tapi masa tu dah sibuk2 mintak kuar sbb esoknya ada exam, ikutkan mmg dah terdaya nak pi exam...tapi nak wat camne, when I called the lecturer he said he can't do anything, i hv to attend classes next sem semula n junior dah xde....so pi la gak jwb exam kat pusat kesihatan UiTM kat atas katil, buat kejap baring n smpt la tido2 kejap sbb masa tu tengkuk sakit sgt...tak boley nak angkat...my mom jaga baby kat luar bwk la dlm moses basket, nasib Syasya baik, dia diam jek...ramai la kerumun dia dok suka sbb ada baby kat situ...hubby pun ada temankan mama exam...then esoknya my mom kena balik sbb kena keje, so mom in law nyer turn gak jaga, ptg tu sampai jek parents in law, i cried sbb rasa sebak bila father in law ckp they can't sleep n risau sgt masa mai nak besalin tu...rasa terharu sgt2...mom in law jaga dari rabu sampai isnin...kesian kat Mak Johor n hubby sbb mmg condition mai pas exam tu teruk sgt, mkn ape jek muntah2 blk...hubby siap suap mkn atas katil...., kwn2 nak dtg pun kami x bg dtg lagik, sbb waktu siang camtu la...mlm amik org urut 3 hari...masa mlm selalunya ok...Syasya pulak kuning sikit, tapi alhamdulilah tak kena warded, selalu baby kalo vacum kena kuning...sian dia nenek Johor tlg jgkan...nenek Johor byk experience, dia pandai urut n byk petua2 siap buatkan kantung utk Syasya, Atok Johor pun camtu gak....tapi bila pikir2 balik baru teringat nurse kat hospital ckp kalo bdn x boley terima ubat bius placenta removal tu, mmg muntah2 no wonder la....pas jek exam ari ahad tu, dah tak sakit bahu n dah tak muntah2, maybe pressure pasal exam kot, walopun mulut kata x kisah tapi hati tu risau gak...ramai kata yg saya amik risiko besar sbb dlm pantang patutnyer tak bley byk pikir or susah atie....tapi alhamdulilah semua dah berlalu n berjaya gagahkan diri amik 2 exam masa dlm pantang...jwb ala kadar hanya utk lulus sbb mmg masa tu x ley nak pikir...redha jekla harap2 lulus, kalo x nak wat camne, i've tried my best.

Conclusionnyer....mmg bersalin tu sakit, n tak dpt di describekan with words, kalo dah mengalaminya barula tau, tapi bila dah tgk baby ilang la semua sakit2, apapun syukur sgt semua dah selamat n dpt bersalin normal....kata org masing2 dpt bhgn masing2, ada yg mengandung susah, ada yg bersalin susah, mana ada yg semua ok jek kan....dan yg paling terharu my hubby sanggup tak amik exam utk temankan saya bersalin...i really appreciate the sacrifice he made, mmg tak dpt dilupakan sampai bila2...u was there for me all along...thank u sayang...lg satu betul la kata org kalo ada org baru, selalunya murah rezeki, ari yg Syasya lahir, kami dpt email about our 2mths bonus n keta baru Mama pun dpt masa Syasya dah kuar...to our baby Syasya we love u, and both of us, Mama n Papa sanggup korbankan apa saje utk sayang....just remember that key...be a good girl ek Syasya...